changingminds.org

How we change what others think, feel, believe and do

 

Disciplines

 

Techniques

 

Principles

 

Explanations

 

Theories

 

 

Home

 

Blog!

 

Quotes

 

Guest articles

 

Analysis

 

Books

 

Help us

 

Links

 

 

 

Avoidant Personality

 

Explanations > Personality > Personality Disorders > Avoidant Personality

Description | Discussion | See also

 

Description

A person with an avoidant personality feels inadequate and so has great trouble interacting with others.

Symptoms may include:

  • Easily hurt by criticism or disapproval.
  • Assumes others think them inadequate.
  • Fearful of what others may think or say.
  • Avoids activities where they have to interact with others.
  • Feels they are inferior (and others superior).
  • Difficulty in sustaining close relationships.

About 1% of both men and woman have this disorder. It often appears in childhood.

Discussion

Unlike some other disorders, avoidant people may well respond to therapeutic methods where their confidence may be boosted and understanding of the condition lead to effective coping strategies.

Avoidant people are not necessarily introverted, although it may seem this way. They may actually really want to be with others, but their sense of inadequacy and fears of what others may think or say prevents them from seeking relationships. They may hence live sad and lonely lives, and may even seek refuge in drugs or fall into other disorders.

Because they fear criticism, they may speak little and appear to be the 'quiet mouse'. Others may hence not realize the severity of their condition. The fear may also drive hard work in order to avoid being criticized and they may hence be offered promotion, which they will likely reject as this could lead to the need to interact more with others.

Where they do interact with others, the avoidant person will seek to be liked by being friendly and not criticizing others. In this way they may well appear as a 'nice person'.

The person is unlikely to feel that they are bad, even though they fear being judged. They just tend to think that this is just an aspect of their personality, that they are quiet and are not that social.

Avoidant Personality Disorder is one of the ten personality disorders described by DSM-IV.

Avoidant personality disorder is not the same as Social Phobia, which is caused by specific traumas and hence is limited to particular situations. The avoidant condition will appear in most contexts.

See also

Anxiety, Fear, Attraction vs. Avoidance Preference

 

More Kindle books:

And the big
paperback book


Add/share/save:


 

 


Save the rain


 

 


SalesProCentral

 

Contact Caveat About Students Webmasters Awards Guestbook Feedback Sitemap Changes

 

 

Quick links

Disciplines

* Argument

Brand management

* Change Management

Coaching
+
Communication

Counseling

Game Design

+ Human Resources

+ Job-finding

* Leadership

Marketing

Politics

+ Propaganda

+ Rhetoric

* Negotiation

* Psychoanalysis

* Sales

Sociology

+ Storytelling

+ Teaching
Warfare
Workplace design

 

Techniques

+ Assertiveness

* Body language

* Change techniques

* Closing techniques

+ Conversation

Confidence tricks

* Conversion

* Creative techniques

* General techniques

+ Happiness

+ Hypnotism

+ Interrogation

* Language

+ Listening

* Negotiation tactics

* Objection handling

+ Propaganda

* Problem-solving

* Public speaking

+ Questioning

Using repetition

* Resisting persuasion

+ Self-development

Sequential requests

Stress Management

* Tipping

Using humor

* Willpower

Principles

+ Principles

Explanations

* Behaviors

+ Beliefs

Brain stuff

Conditioning

+ Coping Mechanisms

+ Critical Theory

+ Culture

Decisions

* Emotions

Evolution

Gender

+ Games

Groups

+ Identity

+ Learning

Meaning

Memory

Motivation

+ Models

* Needs

+ Personality

+ Power

* Preferences

+ Research

Relationships

+ SIFT Model

+ Social Research

Stress

+ Trust

+ Values

Theories

* Alphabetic list

* Theory types

 


  © Changing Minds 2002-2013

  Massive Content -- Maximum Speed

TOP

.