Permission Interrupt

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Description

Ask the other person if you can interrupt.

You can also add some flattery into the interrupt if you wish.

Example

Could I just say something here?

That's a good point -- can I add another thought for you?

You've made me think here -- can I comment?

Discussion

Of course asking if you can interrupt is itself an interrupt, but done as a permission question it becomes more acceptable.

The exchange principle works here. When you ask permission you are showing consideration and politeness, which obliges the other to concede to your request.