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Five Speaking Positions
Techniques > Using Body Language > Satir's Five Positions Placater | Blamer | Computer | Distracter | Leveler | See also
These are body language positions that convey the emotions of Virginia Satir's Stress Responders and are particularly useful for understanding people who are speaking. They may be used not just to express stress but also in talking with others to elicit particular responses. 1. PlacaterThis conveys a request for them to stay calm and may be used in such situations as giving them bad news or asking them for something. It says 'please don't be upset or take offense'. Body position
2. BlamerThe blamer points out problems or issues that the other person has. It says 'you're in trouble'. Maybe it is from you, but often it can be from other situations or people. Body position
3. ComputerThe computer is thinking or evaluating, often held back in a reserved or protective way. It says 'I am considering carefully what you say'. It is useful when someone questions you. It sets the frame as logical and considering. Body position
4. DistracterThis sets the mood as humorous and fun-seeking. It is useful for distracting from difficult situations. Body language
5. LevellerThe Leveler position conveys credibility, honesty. It says 'I am comfortable and relaxed because I have nothing to hide. This is a typical speaking position. Body position
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